{"id":4134,"date":"2013-12-08T08:00:17","date_gmt":"2013-12-08T08:00:17","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/janetgover.com\/?p=4134"},"modified":"2013-12-08T08:00:17","modified_gmt":"2013-12-08T08:00:17","slug":"we-dont-get-out-much","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/janetgover.com\/?p=4134","title":{"rendered":"We don\u2019t get out much\u2026"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<figure id=\"attachment_4135\" aria-describedby=\"caption-attachment-4135\" style=\"width: 400px\" class=\"wp-caption alignleft\"><a href=\"http:\/\/janetgover.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/12\/party-2.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-4135\" alt=\"Conversations with good friends - it may be months between meetings, but it's as if we last met only a few days ago.\" src=\"http:\/\/janetgover.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/12\/party-2.jpg\" width=\"400\" height=\"256\" \/><\/a><figcaption id=\"caption-attachment-4135\" class=\"wp-caption-text\">Conversations with good friends &#8211; it may be months between meetings, but it&#8217;s as if we last met only a few days ago.<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><span style=\"color: #000000; font-family: Calibri; font-size: medium;\">Writing can be a lonely job. <\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"color: #000000; font-family: Calibri; font-size: medium;\">We spend most of our time chained to a computer, or a notebook, talking to people who exist only in our own heads.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"color: #000000; font-family: Calibri; font-size: medium;\">It has been said that the only person who really understands a writer is another writer. <\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"color: #000000; font-family: Calibri; font-size: medium;\">That may or may not be true, but there\u2019s no doubt that friendships between writers are very important \u2013 and rather special.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"color: #000000; font-family: Calibri; font-size: medium;\">Yesterday the London Chapter of the Romantic Novelists association held its Christmas lunch\u2026 and I was reminded so forcefully why my writer friends are so important to me.<\/span><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><span style=\"color: #000000; font-family: Calibri; font-size: medium;\"><!--more--><\/span><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<figure id=\"attachment_4137\" aria-describedby=\"caption-attachment-4137\" style=\"width: 256px\" class=\"wp-caption aligncenter\"><a href=\"http:\/\/janetgover.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/12\/party-3.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-medium wp-image-4137\" alt=\"Always happy to see each other - and to share the highs and lows of this crazy job we all love.\" src=\"http:\/\/janetgover.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/12\/party-3-256x300.jpg\" width=\"256\" height=\"300\" \/><\/a><figcaption id=\"caption-attachment-4137\" class=\"wp-caption-text\">Always happy to see each other &#8211; and to share the highs and lows of this crazy job we all love.<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<figure id=\"attachment_4139\" aria-describedby=\"caption-attachment-4139\" style=\"width: 300px\" class=\"wp-caption aligncenter\"><a href=\"http:\/\/janetgover.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/12\/PARTY-6.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-medium wp-image-4139\" alt=\"No-one is too embarrassed to wear a party hat or play a party game\" src=\"http:\/\/janetgover.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/12\/PARTY-6-300x244.jpg\" width=\"300\" height=\"244\" \/><\/a><figcaption id=\"caption-attachment-4139\" class=\"wp-caption-text\">No-one is too embarrassed to wear a party hat or play a party game<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<figure id=\"attachment_4142\" aria-describedby=\"caption-attachment-4142\" style=\"width: 550px\" class=\"wp-caption aligncenter\"><a href=\"http:\/\/janetgover.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/12\/party-7.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-4142\" alt=\"We laugh with each other - never at each other.\" src=\"http:\/\/janetgover.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/12\/party-7.jpg\" width=\"550\" height=\"264\" \/><\/a><figcaption id=\"caption-attachment-4142\" class=\"wp-caption-text\">We laugh with each other &#8211; never at each other.<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<figure id=\"attachment_4145\" aria-describedby=\"caption-attachment-4145\" style=\"width: 360px\" class=\"wp-caption aligncenter\"><a href=\"http:\/\/janetgover.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/12\/party-4.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\" wp-image-4145 \" alt=\"And we all get the same Jane Austen inspired jokes.\" src=\"http:\/\/janetgover.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/12\/party-4.jpg\" width=\"360\" height=\"282\" \/><\/a><figcaption id=\"caption-attachment-4145\" class=\"wp-caption-text\">We all get the same Jane Austen inspired jokes.<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<figure id=\"attachment_4149\" aria-describedby=\"caption-attachment-4149\" style=\"width: 259px\" class=\"wp-caption aligncenter\"><a href=\"http:\/\/janetgover.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/12\/party-1.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\" wp-image-4149   \" alt=\"And all the gaily wrapped presents waiting to be delivered are book-shaped.\" src=\"http:\/\/janetgover.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/12\/party-1.jpg\" width=\"259\" height=\"410\" \/><\/a><figcaption id=\"caption-attachment-4149\" class=\"wp-caption-text\">And all the gaily wrapped presents waiting to be delivered are book-shaped.<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n<p>It may be a tad early, but I\u2019m sending seasons greetings to writers everywhere \u2013 to my friends, acquaintances and all those I have never met. Love books. Love writing. Love writers.<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>&nbsp; &nbsp; Writing can be a lonely job. We spend most of our time chained to a computer, or a notebook, talking to people who exist only in our own heads. 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